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Beyond Business as Usual – Vestry Leadership Development

By Neal Michell

 

 

Ancient Wisdom

How Jesus taught I . . .

“Jesus told the crowds all these things in parables; without a parable he told them nothing.”

—Matthew 13:1

 

How Jesus taught II . . .

C.S. Lewis says of our Lord, “He preaches but He does not lecture. He uses paradox, proverb, exaggeration, parable, irony; even (I mean no disrespect) the ‘wisecrack.’ He utters maxims which, like popular proverbs, if rigorously taken, may seem to contradict one another. His teaching therefore cannot be grasped by intellect alone.”

C.S. Lewis

 

The importance of preaching. . .

First I would reaffirm the importance of preaching. A few notes scraped together on Saturday night are not enough . . . hurried, shabby work is . . .evident.

Sam Shoemaker

Delivery . . .

Fine content can be wholly lost by poor delivery. Say your prayers before you go into the pulpit, and God may say something of real importance to you at the moment.

Sam Shoemaker

 

The parson catechizing . . .

The Country Parson values Catechizing highly: for there being three points of his duty, the one, to infuse a competent knowledge of salvation in every one of his Flock; the other, to multiply, and build up his knowledge, to a spiritual Temple; the third, to inflame this knowledge, to press, and drive it to practice, turning it to reformation of life, by pithy and lively exhortations.”

George Herbert

 

Effective preaching. . .

[P]reaching means more than handing over a tradition; it is rather the careful and sensitive articulation of what is happening in the community so that those who listen can say, ‘You  say what I suspected, you express what I vaguely felt, you bring to the fore what I fearfully kept in the back of my mind. Yes, yes—you say who we are, you recognize our condition . . .’

Henri Nouwen

The peril of preaching . . .

As soon as I learned from the Holy Scriptures how terror-filled and perilous a matter it was to preach publicly in the church of God . . . there was nothing I so much desired as silence.

Martin Luther

Lighten Up

(A true true story)

Bishop Alexander Garrett on Texans in the late 1800’s.

“If you insist upon gambling, and try to cheat in doing so, it is likely you will get shot.  If you drink whisky with the drunken and become quarrelsome in your cups, it is possible you will get shot.  Hence it is well for men to remember that Texas is not a place where you can act as you will—cheat, steal, lie, or commit adultery, and then be held quite harmless.  No indeed.  They may not wait for the law to catch and punish in such cases; but probably shoot you in advance and investigate afterwards.”

 

For Missional Leaders in the Episcopal Diocese of Dallas and  Beyond

 

February 1, 2008

 

 

The Four Truths of the Storyteller

Canon Neal Michell

 

 

This is a longer newsletter than I normally send out. The content was too great, and I felt inspired by the topic.—Neal

 

About five years ago I led a church through the initial stages of developing their strategic plan. During our review of the history of the parish, we all had an “Aha moment” that transformed our strategic planning process and that many of those leaders remember and talk about to this day.

In reviewing the history of the parish, I decided not to focus our narrative on the usual history of the succession of the rectors, or of the second-most-typical history of the buildings. Instead, I asked them to recount the history of the parish based upon the history of the new ministries that had been started. As these long-time leaders and parishioners began telling their stories, a perfunctory conversation turned into an electric one.

They discovered about their congregation that their congregation was really an innovator in the diocese. This congregation had been functioning for several years on initiatives that had been started years before.  Their programs were generally running smoothly, but, if truth be told, there was not a lot of passion among this congregation—until this moment.

This story came to mind as I read recently an article in the December 2007 Harvard Business Journal, “The Four Truths of the Storyteller.” This article struck a responsive chord in me as I reflected on what Peter Gruber was saying about storytelling. Peter Gruber says that the “stories that move and captivate people are those that are true to the teller, the audience, the moment, and the mission.” Here are my reflections based upon his outline.

The Power of Storytelling

Let me say at the outset that if as a preacher or teacher you are not telling stories, you are missing an awful lot of your would-be listeners. Storytelling is a primary medium for people affected by postmodernity—which is all of us. This is true for the preacher and teacher as well as the leader of any organization. Anyone involved in vision-casting and vision-reinforcing must be a storyteller who tells stories in service of the vision, to help articulate the vision and to confirm the vision (remember the saying, “what gets rewarded gets done”? Storytelling is a way of rewarding those who are living into the vision of the organization).

Recall the story of King David and the prophet Nathan in 2 Samuel 12:1-13. David had sinned with Bathsheba and had had Uriah her husband killed in battle. Nathan had a word of conviction from the Lord, but Nathan also knew what King David did to people who brought good news to the king¾recall where the origin of the phrase “don’t shoot the messenger” came from (2 Samuel 1:1-16).

So rather than just telling David that God knew that he had committed adultery with Bathsheba and had Uriah killed, Nathan told his king the story of a man in his kingdom who had taken the single ewe lamb of a poor man in his kingdom. Nathan asked his king what should be done. Outraged, King David said, “the man who did this deserves to die!” Then, Nathan said to his king, “You are the man!”  When confronted with this story, rather than have Nathan killed to cover his sin, King David was enabled to repent.

That is the power of storytelling.

Four Truths of Storytelling

To repeat: stories that move and captivate people must be true to the teller, the audience, the moment, and the mission.  If you are going to move people from one place to another—and isn’t that what leadership is about? Leading people from a less-preferred present to a more-preferred future? To ask people to sacrifice requires passion in the leader as well as passion in those the leader is trying to move into the future. Well-told stories that fit these four criteria have the capacity to incite people’s emotions to get them to move forward.

The Leader as Storyteller

One of the problems with most organizations, ands churches especially, is that they often have no corporate memory. Most people don’t know what happened among the congregation until they got there. The problem with this is that the vision for the congregation does not really change when a new rector comes; rather the true vision of the congregation resides in the soul of the congregation. It up for vote from rector to rector. It was implanted on the soul of the congregation by those who planted the church.

Storytelling is about more than entertainment and funny stories—although funny stories do help. The stories the leader tells must be rooted in truth: truth about the congregation or organization, true to the teller, and true to the values of the organization.

Telling true stories, that the congregation recognizes as authentic allows people to “connect the dots” and be able to understand and articulate the larger identity of the congregation and give permission for the appropriate amount fo change to take place—in service of the vision. The past is the key to the future, and the leader as storyteller holds the keys to the future.

Truth to the Teller

The story, as noted above, must first be authentic to the teller. He must embrace the story as conforming with his own values so the audience can have a peek into the storyteller’s soul. Recall the uproar several years ago when it was discovered that President Clinton used poll research to help him establish certain policies. People were outraged that he seemed to have no core value other than to get in front of the crowd and give them what he thought they wanted.

The most powerful story of truth to the storyteller is the story of Johnson & Johnson and the Tylenol scare of 1982. At the time Tylenol commanded 35 percent of the pain reliever market and represented 15 percent of Johnson & Johnson’s profits. When one person succeeded in lacing a bottle of Tylenol with Cyanide; seven people died as a result.

What was J&J to do? To recall all of the bottles of Tylenol in that market alone would be enormously expensive and decimate the bottom line. James Burke, the CEO made the first priority, “How do we protect the people?” This was in keeping with their core values of honesty, integrity, and sustainability. They acted quickly: they would pull ALL of the bottles of Tylenol off every shelf in America. They then developed a tamper-proof bottle so that such tampering would never happen again.  James Burke moved J&J to act quickly because those core values were true for him as well. They were not up for renegotiation in a time of crisis.

Truth to the Audience

All listeners have an internal conversation going on within them; it is often a conversation between the mind and the heart. The powerful storyteller is able to enter into that internal conversation and communicate truth that is true for both the heart as well as the mind. Henri Nouwen describes this aspect in his book The Wounded Healer. He says that the power of a preacher is when the listener listens to him and say, “You know what I know; you feel what I feel.  Yes, you can speak into my life!” (my paraphrase from memory).

Additionally, the storyteller must know when and how to be transparent. The speaker is allowing the audience or congregation to take a glimpse into his soul so they can identify with him (Psalm 42 talks about “deep calls to deep.”) Gruber’s article quotes a leader who said, “Make the ‘I’ in your story become ‘we,’ so the whole tribe or community can come together and unite behind your experience and the idea it embodies.

Truth to the Moment

One of the most powerful tools of the storyteller is taking advantage of teachable moments. This has a couple of implications.

First, the storyteller must be listening for cues that will allow her to speak directly to the moment when people are most responsive. For example, on my second Sunday in a new congregation I was preaching on stewardship. In trying to show the relationship between the church’s budget and ministry I set up my sermon with a story: I said, “Imagine that a cargo jet was flying overhead into San Antonio on a Sunday morning, and it developed engine trouble. All of a sudden the engines died and they came crashing into the corner of Creek and Bowie (where our church was located). Imagine that we were all gathered here for worship and we all perished in the crash. If our church were to disappear instantly like that, would anyone notice we were gone?”  I then intended to talk about all the ministries supported by our budget. As I was speaking, a plane flew overhead and the congregation could hear the whirr of the engine. They all sat up and listened a lot more intently. It was truly a teachable moment.

Second, the storyteller must know her story (stories) so well that she can be flexible to the needs of the moment. In other words, different details may change in the telling of a story to be more tailor-fitted to the audience. You can leave some details out in one telling and add other details in, depending on the needs of the audience. For example, I told a small group in our church of how I woke up on Christmas Eve when I was six years old, only to be told that my father had died in a car accident the night before. I related how Christmas is sometimes a bittersweet time for me and how important the incarnation and resurrection are to me as a result. A parishioner emailed me about how his own wife had passed away several years earlier and that he had had to remove her life support on Christmas day several years earlier. Later, in speaking about Christmas during a sermon I shared about how Christmas can be a not-so-happy time for people who were lonely, or people who had no family around or for people had lost loved ones at this time of year and then told my own story. I soon received an email from this man thanking me for speaking directly to him during the sermon time and how much he appreciated all I was doing in the parish during this challenging time.

Truth to the Mission

Gruber says, “A great storyteller is devoted to a cause beyond self.” In the church we are devoted to the greatest of all causes: fitting people for eternity¾life eternal and abundant life now through Jesus Christ. In preaching the storyteller is always telling stories in service of drawing people into the larger mission beyond themselves. The pastor of a congregation needs to be the storyteller of the congregation, the corporate memory who tells stories that both articulate the vision of the congregation and that serve to reinforce that vision. In my introductory story the mood in the room became electric when we discovered the value among the history of the congregation of being an innovator. That they continue to relate that story six years later is evidence of the power of relating the story to the truth to the mission. The next rector was able to begin three new initiatives because of the work of this committee.

Storytelling is at the Heart of the Christian Community

Both the Old Testament communities of Israel and the New Testament community of the church were drawn together and formed through oral tradition. I have used PowerPoint extensively in teaching, but it is not the fancy entrances of the words that move people. It is the stories that touch the heart. It is stories that engage the hearts of the listeners and engage their emotions to move beyond where they are to a preferred future. When I think of what books Jesus might have in his library, I doubt seriously that he would have bunch of commentaries. I really think he would have a library full of story books. Go read some stories. Listen to some stand-up comedians and how they set up their jokes and deliver their punch line for greatest effects. Your audiences will appreciate it.

 

‘Till next time,

 

Neal+

 

 

 


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